Rejection

Let me start with a question --->

When I say the word "Rejection" what does it bring up in you and how does it make you feel inside of you?

What are the thoughts that immediately pop up in your mind? What emotions are loosed?

re·ject (rĭ-jĕkt′)

tr.v. re·ject·ed, re·ject·ing, re·jects

1.

a. To refuse to accept, submit to, believe, or make use of: He rejected their version of what happened. The store rejected the merchandise because it was damaged. Synonym refuse.

b. To refuse to consider or grant; deny: The manager rejected all requests for time off. The college rejected the student's application.

2.

a. To turn down (an applicant, as for a job); refuse to accept. (A conscious act of will! - Acceptance is what we all long for)

b. To refuse to accept (someone) as a lover, spouse, or friend.

c. To refuse to give sufficient parental affection or care to (a child or young animal).

Why do we actually feel rejected?

We were born with a hole inside and this needs to be filled up. We have a natural need inside to belong to someone or something.

We feel the need to be affirmed and accepted from everybody which is practically impossible, unfortunately.

We feel the need to please everybody just because we don't want to be rejected.

The issue with that is that when we start doing that we start compromising in a way that will change who we really are!

We need to be ourselves as much as this can cause to be rejected. At least you are free to be YOU!

“Trying to please everybody is impossible - if you did that, you'd end up in the middle with nobody liking you. You've just got to make the decision about what you think is your best, and do it.”

― John Lennon, The Beatles Anthology

It sounds a bit selfish and wrong - but I don't think it is at all!

We were perfect – now we are not perfect and we don't need to be! But we crave to be – now you are not and you will not be perfect - but you are on your way of perfection!

Especially among us women we should always be for one another and not fight each other.

We should be the greatest supporters and encouragers to one another. We should love each other and help each woman and girl to be herself as much as possible.

There is no need for you to prove yourself to anybody. Your calling is to simply be you!

You are already accepted and approved by being alive and breathing in an out. As long as you are breathing you still have a purpose and things to do here on the face of the earth.

You are so dearly loved and desired.

Here is what I want you to do:

Every morning when you look into the mirror - I want you to speak to yourself and say: “I am beautiful and I am precious. I am deeply loved and accepted. I don't have to proof myself to anybody. I am who I am for a reason.”

By Maria Patrizia Gruttadauria

Glimpse of Glory

There are moments and situations in life where you tend to think - "what in world am I here for..."
Where life does not make a lot of sense and you feel useless and empty.
You even go so far to question Gods true existence.

Come on lets be real here, don't tell me that in your walk with Christ you have never question him or his existence. #realitycheck

The truth is that in spite of your believe and faith in Him - does not change the fact that God is real and he is alive.

The Bible - Gods genuine Word - says that he is LOVE and spirit and that we were created by him - for him in his very image. He is a good God and he loves us unconditionally - in spite of our performance and productivity. Praise God.

We often think and are convinced about the fact that we know God. Really you think you know God?
The God who created the Heaven and Earth and all that dwells in it? The God who holds the whole Universe in his Hands?

Newsflash darling! You and I do not know God. We may have fragments and glimpses of his Nature and Glory - but we do not really know God! The more I walk with Christ the more I realise "God you are so immense...how can I ever get to know you for who you really are".
My only hope is that according to the Bible when we reach heaven there will be no more questions!

Hallelujah!

At this very moment I am at home and off work for 2 weeks already. It started with lower back pain and after a few days I had my right leg filled with pain and numbness. I am used to back pain - but this has been the worst so far. I went to the doctor - diagnosis - Sciatica. Wow. I did not even really know what it actually meant. 

I looked it up on the Internet:

Sciatica (/saɪˈætɪkə/), also known as sciatic neuritis, sciatic neuralgia, or lumbar radiculopathy, is when pain is felt going down the leg from the back. This pain may go down the back, outside, or front of the leg. Typically, symptoms are only on one side of the body. Certain causes; however, may result in pain on both sides. Lower back pain is sometimes but not always present. Weakness or numbness may occur in various parts of the leg and foot.

Fantastic! This experience has been very humbling for me. I realised a new how much I´m depending on Gods help and Grace.

However I am glad to be able to walk again and pick up with my life soon again.

PRAISE GOD!

Always,
Trisha

#DrDiagnosis: Sciatica. #Medicine

I have been having lower back pain for so many years. I have not been devoted to really cure it with whatever I can do.

So now the consequences are the upper update. Not to bad. Still very annoying. Not only because I was taken off my normal routine and life/work/social a whole week but I also lost a week of payment from work. Not a mega huge drama - but really stupid!

What have I learned through this pain and experience?

- Refreshed thought; I can only relate to something or someone when I go through it myself #realitycheck

- pain can be caused by being not careful and neglecting yourself

- To stand firm in what I know is true and not what I feel or may see #WordOfGod

- only God can and will heal you. Docs can only help you relief pain. Complete healing is only possible through your Creator.

- to not expect any form of support or help unless it is offered to you. Thank God for my housemate and friend

- keep the Love still no matter what


Recovering,
Trisha

#Trust issue and control #mechanism go always together.

A spirit of control and manipulation takes over you when you feel insecure and unstable in God! #FreedomInChrist

Thoughts

My best girl!!! Love you Tine!

Submission: Trusting in God's sovereignity!

Don't crack under pressure! Stay strong and courageous.

Loosed Thoughts...

Jealousy will not only isolate you but eat you from within and robe you from enjoying yourself and your blessings!

The Lord:

You come and ask me for forgiveness not because  you need to be forgiven again - because you are forgiven already - this your status. Past - present and future. But its about me cleansing your consciousness! This is why you need to come to me and ask me to "forgive" you.

To be blessed: 

To be at peace. At rest and reconciled with God. It goes beyond your understanding and the visible.

Humility-Humble                                    

                            

True humility is seen and not said. A true humble person does not even notice it! It is an attitude towards God and all creation.