Not ONE DROP of my self-worth depends on your acceptance of me. Say it out loud. Smile. Repeat. - Quincy Jones.
I love this quote. Read it again - breathe in and out and read it again. Let it sink in. When I read this for the first time I thought that this is something I really want to implement in my thoughts more and more.
So often we depend on people's words, opinions and acceptance. We all want to be accepted and understood. But if we base our self worth, life and mood on this, we are not going to go far in life.
If we keep trying to please people all the time and make sure everyone likes us - we are going nowhere. We need to shake that off and understand, if one or two do not like nor accept or support us, there are still going to be a million others that are going to love us for who we are!
So forget about that small group of ignorant people and move on! We don't need to convince people to like us. If they are blind to our value it's their problem and loss.
When people ghost you or do not return your call, move on, nothing wrong with you Babe. There might be something wrong with them though. Don't call or text again and again - just move on!
By keeping them at the front of your everyday thoughts you give your power away to them. Take your power back! If a person can change your mood into negative when they enter the room - take your power back!
Nothing and no one should have that power over you.
Don't depend on peoples praises or critics either. People change their opinion daily at times. Today they can lift you to the heavens and tomorrow they drag you down to hell. So please do not depend on people like that.
Know who you are and run with it Babe!
I believe in you and I love you.
RUN BABE RUN! FLY HIGH AND TOUCH THE SKY!
Always,
Trisha 💜
