23 February 2019

Frustration through distraction

You know those moments or times when one text, call or person captures your attention and time and it robs you of your precious time? 

I think we all can relate to that. Like today I planned to have some me time and chill, I had my monthly treat - which is going to the beauty shop once a month and have a pedicure. Then I wanted to sit in a Cafè and write.

When I set down to start writing I noticed a message on my Mac of a contact I did block on my iPhone! How weird I thought…I blocked that person and it should not be able to come through to my Mac as it blocked on my iPhone. Already that annoyed me and I tried to fix it - I could not fix it or better I gave up and thought - I need to move on as it has cost me already to much time (later on it was fixed)!

Time people is so precious why do we keep wasting it? Particularly with things or people that are not worth it of it?

I find my self in this over and over again. I get distracted by things or people and waste time. Now what could be a solution here?

Set priorities! What matters to you really? Set up a list on paper or in your mind. It can be a difficult task especially if you don’t know yourself very well. I think I know myself very well in some ways but still there his more and even though I know myself I tend to compromise with things to then find myself unhappy. 

We need to get to know ourselves and be honest toward ourselves and others. We need to set priorities and accept who we are with the attitude that we can always grow and become a better version of our self.

I believe growth is always possible and important. We need to let go of things and people. The more you hold on to it the more it will distance itself from you.

You also don’t need to convince people to accept or love you. They either do or they don’t. You are worthy of love and you are enough.

Always,

Trisha

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