17 April 2019

We are all in the same boat! :-)

Hello somebody! How are you doing out there?

No seriously how are you doing for real? I find it so funny how easily the words: "I am fine." pop out of our mouth.


How much of that response is true though? Just pause for a second and think. How are you? How is life? How are you physically? How are you mentally?


I know, I know I understand you don't want to open up to any random individual and that is right. You should be wise to and with whom you open up to and choose wisely.

This person needs to be someone who is worthy and has earned the right to have the privilege to have that depth of insight into your personal life.


It should be someone who is stable and able to stand on their own feet and proofed to you their loyalty. Someone who is for you and be compassionate and honest at the same time.

I need you to be willing to be vulnerable and withholding nothing. A real friend is someone who is for you - and will have compassion and understanding and not judge you but love you.

courage

/ˈkʌrɪdʒ/
noun
the ability to do something that frightens one; bravery.
"she called on all her courage to face the ordeal"
strength in the face of pain or grief.

"he fought his illness with great courage"


synonyms: bravery, braveness, courageousness, pluck, pluckiness, valour, fearlessness, intrepidity, intrepidness, nerve, daring, audacity, boldness; dauntlessness, doughtiness, stout-heartedness, hardihood, manfulness, heroism, gallantry; backbone, spine, spirit, spiritedness, mettle, determination, fortitude, resolve, resolution; informalguts, grit, spunk, gutsiness, gameness; informalbottle, ballsiness; informalmoxie, cojones, sand; vulgar slangballs


"it takes courage to speak out against the tide of opinion"


The root of the word courage is cor - the Latin word for heart. In one of its earliest forms, the word courage meant "To speak one's mind by telling all one's heart." Over time, this definition has changed, and today, we typically associate courage with heroic and brave deeds. Brené Brown


courage:

It takes courage, compassion and connection to live a life wholeheartedly based on the book I am reading currently called: "The gifts of Imperfection". I am loving it so much.

compassion

/kəmˈpaʃ(ə)n/
noun
sympathetic pity and concern for the sufferings or misfortunes of others.
"the victims should be treated with compassion"
synonyms: pity, sympathy, feeling, fellow feeling, empathy, understanding, care, concern, solicitude, solicitousness, sensitivity, tender-heartedness, soft-heartedness, warm-heartedness, warmth, love, brotherly love, tenderness, gentleness, mercy, mercifulness, leniency, lenience, tolerance, consideration, kindness, humanity, humaneness, kind-heartedness, charity, benevolence
"she gazed with compassion at the two dejected figures"

compassion:

To have compassion means to be not judgemental and love and embrace that person fully with their weaknesses and strength. And after you have listened to be willing to be kind and then also share out of your experience and be vulnerable as well.

connection

/kəˈnɛkʃ(ə)n/
noun
a relationship in which a person or thing is linked or associated with something else.
"the connections between social attitudes and productivity"
synonyms: link, relationship, relation, relatedness, interrelation, interrelatedness, interconnection, interdependence, association, attachment, bond, tie, tie-in, correspondence, parallel, analogy; bearing, relevance
"he does not pursue the connection between commerce and art"

connection:

To me to really connect means to dig deep. To do life together and really be vulnerable
without playing it down because of shame and fear.

Be VULNERABLE!!!

Always Trisha

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